How to: Acclimatize To A New City
Few of life’s changes impact a person on so many levels as moving to a new city; the sense of loss is traumatic and often heartbreaking. Some experts consider it to be among the most stressful situations in life, alongside illness, divorce and losing a loved one.
There are, however, time-tested methods -- some modern, some decidedly old-fashioned -- to accelerate the process of change and to get you feeling at home in a new city. Behind all of them is one broad key: Making emotional connections. The sooner you have an emotional stake in the people, the places and the things that constitute your new city, the quicker your proverbial house becomes a home.
Become a regular
A familiar face and a shared smile go great distances toward making you feel at home. The best way to manufacture this smile is to start frequenting the same places again and again. Hit the same coffee shops and newspaper stands each morning; visit the same supermarket and convenience store on weekends; have lunch and dinner at the same restaurants. As you recognize the people working there, they’ll begin to remember you.Get out and meet people
No aspect of a city is more important or vital than its people, but getting to know them is the hardest thing to do. Consider these options:- Volunteer: Nearly every organization needs volunteers, and you have the luxury to choose an organization that suits your interests.
- Play sports: Join a sports league, preferably intramural.
- Join a club: Harbor a desire to bird watch? Are you a wine lover or a voracious reader? Now is your chance to do the smaller things you’ve always thought about and meet people with similar interests.
- Contact alumni or similar associations: Local alumni groups and other associations abound, and they can offer you valuable activities where you can make both friends and professional connections.
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