Touch Your Way To The Bedroom

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Convincing a woman to sleep with you can be a daunting task. You might be in the mood 24/7, but getting her there at the same time can sometimes be a challenge. Sometimes women need to be eased into it, and despite the extra effort you’ll have to make, the process can be fun. Touch can be both a subtle indication of desire and an obvious sign that you’re ready to get busy. A gradually increasing level of touch will help you end up at your desired destination: the bedroom.

So, here's how to touch you way into the bedroom.

Be touchy-feely

Your first step in touching your way to the bedroom is a series of innocent, seemingly accidental touches; brush up against her as you walk through a crowd; put your hand on her leg while you’re talking to emphasize a point; push her hair out of her eyes gently. There should be nothing lecherous about this first stage. Your touch should be interpreted as sweet and gentlemanly.

Pull her into you

As you earn gentleman brownie points and gain her trust, you can move on to a type of touch that implies greater intimacy. Touch your way into the bedroom by putting your arm around her or resting your hand on the small of her back. If she leans into your body without any self-consciousness, you’ve got a green light for the next level of touch.

Dance with her

In order to maximize this type of touch, it’s imperative that you know how to dance. If you’re hopeless in the rhythm department and look like a flailing octopus on the dance floor, this one isn’t going to work for you. Don’t be deluded about it; ask your friends for an honest, forthright opinion on your dancing skills. If they advise you not to go there, skip this idea and move on to the next step to touch your way into the bedroom.

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Sarah Stefanson is a writer, editor and advice columnist for a variety of online magazines on subjects as varied as sex, relationships, fashion, women’s issues, travel, and autos. She and her boyfriend live in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, where they are both working on novels.
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