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[ - ] I posted about crazy SIL last night. Tonight I got in "trouble" with her for putting tomatoes in the salad because apparently 39 yo BIL hates them. A: I had no idea and B: I am a vegetarian and can't even count the number of times we've had steaks for dinner and I ate sides without a word. Can't wait to fly home tomorrow. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:23 AM Flag
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tell her that he can suck it up and point out the steak thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:24 AM Flag
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Not worth it. She is crazy. It's 8 years in at this point. Just venting I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:25 AM Flag
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Too bad you forgot the laxatives in the brownies [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:26 AM Flag
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God I wish. She could actually use it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:27 AM Flag
[ - ] This is the first year we're by ourselves on xmas w/o parents or in laws. Thought it would be peaceful which it is but I'm also a bit depressed. Seems so anticlimatic. DH and DC are fine, telling me I'm being a downer. Trying to turn my mood around but not sure how to. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:04 AM Flag
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enjoy it, open a bottle of vino and watch a holiday movie. do you have the day planned for tomorrow? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:09 AM Flag
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Just opening presents and cooking. Got any ideas that would liven things up? I'm open to suggestions [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:10 AM Flag
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np. Watch Rudolph with hot cocoa, go look at Christmas lights, make crafts, sing carols, string popcorn, play lots of board games, make a scavenger hunt, family football game... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:27 AM Flag
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I'm with you. We are by ourselves this Christmas. Just had a DD two weeks ago. My dad already came and went, so it's me, DH, DS and DD. Thought it would be nice and relaxing, but it's depressing. Hope things pick up tomorrow when DS gets to open presents. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:22 AM Flag
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get over it. You are bringing everyone down. Appreciate your family and little traditions that you can start with them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you know any guys who actually like heavy girls in nyc? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:54 AM Flag
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Guys don't care if you're big. They care if you're too big. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
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Np. What does that mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
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NP: I think that means that guys don't care if you're a size zero. But they do care if you're a size 18. So, 4 or 10 is no matter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:01 AM Flag
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Hey, I'm a size 18 and I've never been without a guy when I've wanted one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:14 AM Flag
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whatever. you get my point. my sizes were approximate :-) point is if you're reasonably sized, guys don't care what size you are as long as you're fun!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:16 AM Flag
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if you are that heavy how will they part the seas? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Who's drinking tonight? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:47 AM Flag
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Me. Got DH to sleep drinking champagne (after whatever he had after work) and he's out like a light. I have to do the stockings and will stay up with a PPV wrapping and elfing the "stockings" which never fit into the "stockings" anymore. Also just letting the dogs in and out and giving them people food. But I will be up !! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:52 AM Flag
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me too. expect to be wrapping for a couple of hours. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:55 AM Flag
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Me too. DH and I had our Chinese food and now watching Friday Night Lights on NetFlix. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:58 AM Flag
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DH and I having some beers while we wait for our pasta carbonara to be ready, then gonna have port with vanilla ice cream. No dcs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
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As soon as I get home! ... So, at like 2am your time... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
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Not me. :( PG. But I am eating cupcakes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:03 AM Flag
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Face down in a pitcher of sangria. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Just logged on, and scrolling through the threads I have to wonder why people can't vent here without having some nasty responder accusing them of lacking perspective. Yes, there are other people somewhere out there who have worse problems, but that doesn't invalidate UBers feelings about their own problems. So please stop with the heartless, nasty responses. /rant 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:42 AM Flag
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THIS! I saw several people, one woman in particular get slammed all day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:51 AM Flag
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i think it's because there are so many ninnys on here who post ridiculous 'issues' and the reality is that they've nothing to worry about, it's draining having to reassure so many of them so often. my 2c [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:01 AM Flag
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You know, everybody gets their turn. In the past I've done the cheering up, this year I'm having a rough time (and still try to do some cheering up anyway). If you don't have anything nice to say.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:08 AM Flag
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Many of the complaints on here just aren't valid, that's my point. carry on! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:10 AM Flag
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Sorry but you're conflating two different issues. On the one hand, you can't blow off someone's problems because there are other people in the world with worse problems. But on the other hand, that doesn't mean that some posters' problems are invalid. Basically, (1) you're not too swift or (2) you haven't thought through this very well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:05 AM Flag
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I think I got this figured out: it one of two things, possibly both: trolls and mods. Someone (some group?) comes on here to whip up the cream, regularly. That's why you see all the mean posts. So... as they say in Interwebs Land: DON'T FEED THE TROLLS. You're welcome and Merry Christmas! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:11 AM Flag
[ - ] what are your 5 yo boys favorite books? Thanks 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:38 AM Flag
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Any book based on a cartoon or movie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:41 AM Flag
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Curious George, The Frogs Wore Red Suspenders, Be Glad Your Nose Is On Your Face, Scruffy the Sailboat, Pirate Parrot Training School [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:46 AM Flag
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Llama llama books, a visitor for bear, the little critter series. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:46 AM Flag
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like visitor for bear, but not llama llama. esp for a 5 year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:09 AM Flag
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like visitor for bear, but not llama llama. esp for a 5 year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:09 AM Flag
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Octonauts, Mike Mulligan, Elephant & Piggie, Fly Guy, still loves Chicka Chicka Boom Boom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:48 AM Flag
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Magic school bus, magic treehouse, my weird school, flat Stanley (all series). Those he can read himself. We've been reading roald Dahl (Charlie and the choc factory, James & giant peach). He loves those. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
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Tyranasaurus Drip? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:05 AM Flag
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Three Tales of My Father's Dragon by Ruth Stiles Gannett [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Jewish moms, what do you have planned for DCs tomorrow? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:27 AM Flag
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Guilt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:29 AM Flag
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Why should tomorrow be different from every other day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:33 AM Flag
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It shouldn't it's not passover [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:41 AM Flag
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Exactly: my answer (in the form of a question) was rhetorical. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:41 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:42 AM Flag
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Ugh. Stir-craziness and lots of Sesame Street. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:02 AM Flag
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Thinking of Jewish museum, possibly the playground if not too cold. Also, diner for lunch and of course Chinese food for dinner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you think a 5 year old will care if the gifts are not actually wrapped but in Amazon boxes instead? I realized I don't have any tape and too tired to go buy some. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:13 AM Flag
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of course not! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:16 AM Flag
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No. Save your energy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:16 AM Flag
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Haha. Your house sounds like mine. There are a lot of brown Amazon boxes under the tree. I think Amazon should jazz up their shipping boxes next year (like Netflix does) so we don't feel guilty for not wrapping them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:15 AM Flag
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You can't get them gift wrapped on Amazon? I thought you could. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:42 AM Flag
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Yes. Wrapping paper for my kids is the best part. I HATE wrapping and do a terrible job but put it on for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:16 AM Flag
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Makes it special. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:22 AM Flag
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for next year, just go for gift bags, that's what i'm doing. lots of gifts from relatives in other states. got a bunch of bags and just had them ready. opened boxes, put in bag, put under the tree. this way we also don't have bags and bags of trash after opening gifts, and the gift bags can be reused next year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:24 AM Flag
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One of the items is a pogo stick. Too large to put in a gift bag. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:53 AM Flag
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great idea. where did you get gift bags? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:10 AM Flag
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Santa doesn't wrap. Throw out the boxes. Batteries in anything that needs it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:43 AM Flag
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unwrapping is fun. figure it out. find some stickers or something else htta you can use as tape! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Had a dry run Christmas dinner tonight. Made individual beef wellingtons. Turned out pretty well, but could have been better (DH rated them 8 out of 10). What's the secret to awesome 10/10 beef wellington? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:13 AM Flag
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did you use pate for the filling? I love beef wellingstons! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:22 AM Flag
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I did. I used pate and mushroom duxelles. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:36 AM Flag
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Did you sear the beef? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:26 AM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:36 AM Flag
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What part could have been better? then we know where to start. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:27 AM Flag
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I think the tricky thing is getting the puff pastry to cook at the same speed as the meat. I think the meat cooked before the pastry on the ends (where it's thicker to begin with because that's where it is all gathered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:38 AM Flag
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Did you roast the meat for a bit of time before? The best recipe I found (on epicurious - http://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/Fillet-of-Beef-Wellington-10776) calls for roasting the meat for 20-30 minutes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:41 AM Flag
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I made individual beef wellingtons with filet mignon. We don't have enough people to justify a big, huge tenderloin. I seared the filet for a minute on each side, let it cool and then went to town with the mushrooms, pate and puff pastry. Put them in the oven. The meat was cooked perfectly in 20 minutes. The pastry was a bit doughy on the ends. I'm thinking a higher temperature for less time on the next try. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:51 AM Flag
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What did dh say? That will determine how to improve. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:30 AM Flag
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He didn't really offer constructive criticism. I think the problem is how to regulate the temperature so the pastry cooks at the same speed as the meat. The meat was perfectly cooked, but I think the pastry could have been cooked more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:39 AM Flag
[ - ] best brussel sprouts recipe? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:01 AM Flag
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I don't know, but can I tell you I just saw the brussels sprout for the first time today at Costco?? I had never seen it before. It's literally a tree, like broccoli. Anyway. I used to just microwave the frozen ones with salt and mustard. So, don't listen to me ... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:09 AM Flag
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I bought this today at our grocery store in Toronto. After cutting off the sprouts (that took awhile), I halved them and then steamed them in just enough water to cover the bottom of the pot, some butter, salt, black pepper, and ground ginger. Kids loved it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:53 AM Flag
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Halve them and and roast in a little olive oil. Squeeze on half a lemon and a little salt. Add bacon chunks if you like bacon (but no need -- they're really good plain). Start them cut size down and then turn halfway through. Take about 20 min. Let them brown a little. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:10 AM Flag
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I halve mine and then toss in kosher salt, black pepper and olive oil and roast at 350 for about 30-45 minutes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:10 AM Flag
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Do this but drizzle with maple syrup when they come out of the oven. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:37 AM Flag
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Any way you prepare them, they're still nasty and they reek. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:11 AM Flag
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I'm with you. DH loves them though, so I tolerate their presence, but he's in charge of cooking them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:30 AM Flag
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Check out tastespotting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:11 AM Flag
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Lightly coat in maple syrup and roast in oven [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:34 AM Flag
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Pan-sautéed with shallots and pancetta [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:34 AM Flag
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the recipe is at ilili. soooo good. http://ililirestaurant.tumblr.com/post/2940087084/ilili-brussels-sprouts-recipe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] This is the worst Christmas ever. I can't be too specific, but we have terrible health and financial problems this year, and it doesn't seem like there's an end in sight. My kids caught me sobbing today. I don't know how to put on a happy face for them, and I just have to. Share a happy thought with me? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:58 AM Flag
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You're all still alive. You didn't bury a 6yo in the last week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:58 AM Flag
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No, but I've apparently lost a twin. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:02 AM Flag
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Which means you'll have one healthy baby to adore? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:04 AM Flag
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I hope you never have occasion to really, truly understand how horrible you are being. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:06 AM Flag
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Yawn. Your poor kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:11 AM Flag
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wow, np, you take the cake for worst human being alive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:15 AM Flag
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You have terrible financial problems and a child already and got pregnant with twins??? As someone who has 4 teen and college aged kids, lady you have no idea what is awaiting you in terms of financial hardship [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:52 AM Flag
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This is unbelievable. The financial and health hits happened after I was pregnant which, thank you very much, was natural - not that it should matter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:55 AM Flag
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Unbelievable!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:15 AM Flag
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I am so sorry, how far along are you? That's a loss that you are grieving for sure. Hugs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:11 AM Flag
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So sorry to hear that. Please hang in there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:12 AM Flag
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That must be awful...so sorry. I'm sure things will turn around for your family though. Tough times can suddenly yield new, positive opportunities that you never anticipated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:12 AM Flag
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that you all are together and that's what is Christmas is about? :( sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:10 AM Flag
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Why do you have to put a happy face on for them? Most kids can read through that fake smile. Let them see you be upset and don't feel bad about it. Sometimes life is tough and things will be hard. Let them know it's okay to cry and be upset. You have had a tough year and your emotions have been hard earned. Don't deny them and allow yourself some time to be okay with feeling bad. I hope you have a better 2013. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:17 AM Flag
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Don't lie to them. They will know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:37 AM Flag
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And, I am so sorry you are having a rough time. I know it is trite and doesn't really help but you will make it through. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:38 AM Flag
[ - ] How do Christians greet other Christians at Christmas? 'Merry Christmas' seems too greeting card. 'Happy Holidays' is too generic... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:56 AM Flag
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Merry Christmas it is [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:59 AM Flag
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Unless you're super born again or weird like my mom, you say Merry Christmas. You could say Happy Jesus' Birthday. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:13 AM Flag
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Have a blessed Christmas. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:12 AM Flag
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I got one of these today. Jewish, so I didn't know how to respond. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:10 AM Flag
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"thanks" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 02:11 AM Flag
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"Merry Christmas" in the US; "Happy Christmas" in Britain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:30 AM Flag
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Merry Christmas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Good grief. I am never going to survive a week with my family. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:45 AM Flag
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What are they doing? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:52 AM Flag
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My sister is bitching at her boyfriend and yelling at their young DC over LITTLE things. My mother is going over the top to make and get my sister whatever she wants. I keep hearing comments from my sister about how my life is so horrible and i am such a bad mom. Yeesh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:12 AM Flag
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No one would survive in that. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:18 AM Flag
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A week is a loooooonnnnnngggggggg time, so sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:56 AM Flag
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This is why God invented alcohol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:59 AM Flag
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Not enough alcohol in the world. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:11 AM Flag
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We just exchanged gifts with inlaws. They bought me an ironing board cover. Why? My MIL says "I didn't think you paid attention to things like when it is time to replace an old cover." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:52 AM Flag
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do you even iron? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:55 AM Flag
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sure, if I have to. and i assure you that the current ironing board cover is totally fine! she just can't resist a dig. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 01:57 AM Flag
[ - ] HELP! Kid wants to watch a xmas show: guy who doesn't like snow who melts it with a spray bottle.. he's either a mayor or president of a company.. anyone have any idea what he is talking about? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:36 AM Flag
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Ack!!! Yes!! Can you believe it? "frosty returns." or "return of frosty." it sucks btw [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:38 AM Flag
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google it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:39 AM Flag
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I am googling.. all I'm getting are places that sell ice de-melter! (this is the perfect question for UB, NOT google, btw, google-mom). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:39 AM Flag
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This. Lay off google mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:40 AM Flag
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I just posted above-am I the only one seeing my reply??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:41 AM Flag
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no I got it THANK YOU!!!! I am searching where to watch it online now. You are the best!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:42 AM Flag
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Ok-just making sure:) we have it as part of a set that includes frosty, Rudolph, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:43 AM Flag
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thanks so much. Merry Christmas! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:46 AM Flag
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Frosty the Snowman [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:48 AM Flag
[ - ] cooking moms: how do i make a precooked ham yummy for tomorrow? marinate it in some kind of glaze? thanks. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:23 AM Flag
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Just heat it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:25 AM Flag
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my mom makes a peach/pineapple curry sauce that she would prepare the day of and leave as a side so people can dish it over their own ham. Use canned peaches and pineapples in their syrup though - so just put butter (a lot) in the pan with a lot of curry powder and put the peaches and pineapples in the pan and sautee for like 5-8 mins. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:33 AM Flag
[ - ] posting photos of your children's christmas gifts on facebook is so tacky! please don't do this! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:20 AM Flag
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Wrapped or unwrapped? Or does it matter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:19 AM Flag
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i guess wrapped is better than unwrapped, but it seems braggy to me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:21 AM Flag
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What???? It's not even Christmas morning!!! Weirdos all around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:20 AM Flag
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I'm so glad I'm not on FB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:22 AM Flag
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ITA. Facebook should be The Type of Person I Really Am Book. I can't imagine doing that type of stuff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:24 AM Flag
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Jew here. What are they doing? Posting pics of the wrapped gifts w/ header "look what I've accomplished" type thing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.12, 12:43 AM Flag
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