About Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to do 10 million things in one summer and still make time to date a great guy. She is 21.

 

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TLF With Your BFF

The Importance of Being Friends

I remember a long time ago, when I asked my mom who her best friend was, she told me, “Dad.”

This puzzled me, because in my mind best friends were playmates, not romantic interests. And yet, as I grew older I realized that a romantic interest is just an extension of a friend—they are not two separate categories. You can’t love someone who you don’t know.

The first thing two people notice about each... READ MORE


The Trouble With Fairy Tales

How Overly Romantic Notions Can Hurt Your Relationship

Much as I like it, dating can be really tough.

I know a couple (I’ll leave their names out because I think the girl might be a bit embarrassed about the whole thing. Not that I am her or anything. But even if I was her, would that matter? And anyway this story is totally not about me. Not that it would be anybody’s business if it was.) ...

Phew, where was I? .... Oh yes, these unnamed friends of mine... READ MORE


How to Fight Fair

3 Things to Consider

My boyfriend hates to argue, but I love it. When I think about why we communicate so differently, I attribute a lot of it to where he is from.

His is a typical New England family. They’re polite and reserved. My family is an Irish-American clan from Philly, and last time my boyfriend was here, my little brother called him fat to his face. (He’s not.) Fighting is just an extension of talking where... READ MORE


Nurturing Love Across the Miles

Long distance relationships present unique challenges

Dating will never be the same again. Twentieth century dating brings with it novelties, and possibilities that would have been almost unbelievable two centuries ago. One of the most obvious changes is the “long distance relationship.”

Think about it. A long distance relationship is really unnatural. (I’m in one myself.) A couple years ago, a man met and married the girl up the street—the one who he... READ MORE


Dating Is Not a Chore

4 Ways to Maximize Fun in Your Dating Relationship

I like dating.

A friend of mine in college told me once, “Dating is overrated.” A lot of people seem to think that it’s just a necessary evil: a stepping stone that you have to take so you can be married.

They bemoan the indecisive in-between stage where you’re floating between questions like, “How much time do we spend alone?” and “How much do we include other people in our relationship?”

There’s... READ MORE


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