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  • [-]OK, I've been gone for a week. Have we discussed the NPN poster who is opposed to her nanny wearing scrubs?

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    01.25.08, 08:11 PM Flagged ]
    • who cares about npn?

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      01.25.08, 08:13 PM Flagged
    • yes.......wacko!!!

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      01.25.08, 08:16 PM Flagged
      • ita. she should be happy if she found someone who is trustworthy, nurturing, etc.

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        01.25.08, 08:17 PM Flagged
        • uptight moms can be so demanding

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          11.30.08, 06:59 AM Flag
    • Is it OK to still miss Bernadette after all this time?

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      01.25.08, 08:25 PM Flagged
      • Thank you! I was freaked to see all this discussion about me, but it is nice to know that someone missed me. And, interesting to know that someone thinks I'm self-righteous, have unkempt hair and am overly friendly.

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        11.05.08, 10:03 AM Flagged
      • Bernadette is so totally all over NPN. Way to YAGE and come right back, begging for more abuse. She is a total moron.

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        11.22.08, 10:43 PM Flagged
        • Okay, unkempt hair and a total moron!

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          11.30.08, 06:28 AM Flag
    • Anyone with half a brain can tell it's a single person posting this B crap. And anyone who has met her can tell you she's about a size 5, is well coifed, quite brainy, and is not a frequent poster, although it would be better for npn if she were. Be gone troll.

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      10.25.11, 09:10 AM Flag
  • [-]The famous NPN mom has weighed in on the TG parade... oy.

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    11.22.06, 10:22 AM Flag ]
    • details?

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      11.22.06, 10:22 AM Flag
    • what's Bernadette saying now?

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      11.22.06, 10:23 AM Flagged
      • Of course she wouldn't take her boy- he will just stare at legs and it's dangerous to take kids in crowds.... anyone else get the feeling he's going to need lots of therapy one day?

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        11.22.06, 10:24 AM Flag
        • i feel really bad for that kid

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          11.22.06, 10:26 AM Flag
          • why? little aaron gets to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants!

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            11.22.06, 12:09 PM Flag
        • sounds like he needs it now

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          11.22.06, 01:27 PM Flag
    • is there a TG parade in Chicago?

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      11.22.06, 10:26 AM Flag
      • yep- on State street

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        11.22.06, 10:31 AM Flag
        • ahh, we always go to my parents in LA, so I had no idea

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          11.22.06, 10:31 AM Flag
    • OK, just read her post. I'm actually surprised because she has never struck me as over-protective before. Plus, wasn't she looking for things to do this weekend since dh is going to be working? Lord, I really do know too much about her. Also, I notice t t her boy has now officially turned 5 yo.

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      11.22.06, 11:12 AM Flag
      • np me too, out of character for her and more judgmental than she usually is

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        11.22.06, 01:42 PM Flag
      • Good call! Last week he was still 4! I wonder what they did for his b-day. I bet nothing because it would be too extravagant. What do you guys think?

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        11.22.06, 03:06 PM Flagged
    • It does seem out of character for Bernadette. Usually she is all about the city and all it has to offer. Why on earth would she prefer to take her "boy" to the Loop early in the morning to look at holiday decorations? How boring is that?!?

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      11.22.06, 03:05 PM Flagged
      • Yeah, really. Getting jostled is all part of the fun! City sidewalks, BUSY sidewalks, dressed in holiday style.... Maybe B was just having an off day. She'll post about her remorse tomorrow, don't worry.

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        11.22.06, 06:53 PM Flagged
    • Whoever is bumping this needs professional help.

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      10.20.11, 08:03 PM Flag
      • Agreed! These women are raising children, that's the worst part.

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        10.21.11, 03:00 PM Flag
  • [-]How many NPN members on tonight?

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    09.19.06, 06:20 PM Flag ]
    • Me.

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      09.19.06, 06:20 PM Flag
    • me

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      09.19.06, 06:22 PM Flag
    • Does anyone know Bernadette?

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      09.19.06, 06:23 PM Flag
      • not personally. just from reading her 800 replies on NPN. I reply but not that much.

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        09.19.06, 06:24 PM Flag
        • same here, i totally feel like i know her. would love to meet her in person sometime

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          09.19.06, 06:28 PM Flag
          • I would like to meet her but I doubt we would have anything in common. From what I know, she's an older mom with one ds. vegetarian, etc.

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            09.19.06, 06:30 PM Flag
            • what's older?

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              09.19.06, 06:31 PM Flag
              • she is definitely 40+ since she hosts the "miracle moms" or something like that for moms over 40

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                09.19.06, 06:33 PM Flag
              • She had ds in her 40's. I think her husband is a lawyer. She works out of the house. I think she lives in West Lakeview somewhere.

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                09.19.06, 06:34 PM Flag
                • she lives on southport between fullerton and diversey

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                  09.19.06, 06:34 PM Flagged
                  • ^^in a townhouse, not a SF

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                    09.19.06, 06:35 PM Flag
                    • wow. news to me

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                      09.19.06, 06:38 PM Flag
                      • do you know otherwise?

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                        09.19.06, 06:39 PM Flag
                        • i don't know. i thought she lived in a pimped out house for some reason. she's always alluding to that she and dh are well off

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                          09.19.06, 06:42 PM Flag
                        • i don't really get that impression. i feel like they live pretty frugally.

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                          09.19.06, 07:18 PM Flag
                  • that's Lincoln Park

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                    09.19.06, 06:38 PM Flag
            • same here, i could go on and on with what i know about her (where she lives, where she's from, what websites she vists, where she eats, etc.). she is very thorough - i have to give her credit.

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              09.19.06, 06:32 PM Flag
              • ^^she gets her hair cut at the aveda institute at clark/diversey - maybe you can find her there

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                09.19.06, 06:34 PM Flag
                • thats right. she knows where to find the bargains.

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                  09.19.06, 06:35 PM Flag
                  • poor aaron (ds) doesn't get any new clothes. all 2nd hand stuff.

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                    09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flagged
                    • village discount?

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                      09.19.06, 06:39 PM Flag
                      • that and the second child on armitage

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                        09.19.06, 06:40 PM Flag
                        • I've never been in there and have never bought anything from dd from a 2nd hand store. Is it worth going in?

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                          09.19.06, 06:43 PM Flag
                        • never been - not a fan of second hand stores

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                          09.19.06, 07:18 PM Flag
                      • what/where is village discount?

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                        09.19.06, 06:52 PM Flag
                        • it's on roscoe just west of damen. it does not look like a nice place and i have never been in.

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                          09.19.06, 07:19 PM Flag
                        • it's alot to go through, but there are gems to be found there. mot the best kid clothes selection though.

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                          09.20.06, 06:06 AM Flag
              • Her husband is an attorney who travels a lot. She is in marketing or PR, I think, and works out of her house.

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                09.19.06, 07:41 PM Flag
                • ^^^ also, her son failed pre-pre-school a few times and she's very happy with Cardinal Bernardin.

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                  09.19.06, 07:42 PM Flagged
                  • VERY

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                    09.19.06, 07:59 PM Flag
                  • how do you fail pre-pre school??

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                    09.20.06, 05:39 PM Flag
                    • her son has completed the "transition" class 3 times, i believe. maybe he has attachment issues

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                      09.20.06, 05:48 PM Flag
      • LOL

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        09.19.06, 06:25 PM Flag
      • this is starting to sound stalker-like ;) I know she posted all of this information, but...

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        09.19.06, 06:35 PM Flagged
        • ITDA. She has literally responded to over 800 posts. Its HARD not to know about her.

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          09.19.06, 06:44 PM Flag
          • I was just kidding - no reason to disagree :)

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            09.19.06, 06:53 PM Flag
      • want to know something funny? i used to hang out on another board -- not parenting related, and national -- so presumably a fairly different audience -- and she was a member there. i recognized her on npn because she has a fairly distinctive way of writin writing and i thought it was her (she used a different name on this other board) -- for months i was reading all her posts to figure out if it was her, turns out it was.

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        09.19.06, 07:10 PM Flag
        • was it babycenter?

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          09.19.06, 07:20 PM Flag
          • no, not a parenting site

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            09.20.06, 01:28 PM Flag
            • please share- what type of site?

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              09.20.06, 05:49 PM Flag
    • the discussion board on NPN is so PC.

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      09.19.06, 06:26 PM Flag
      • it is very irritating. lots of sanctimommies

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        09.19.06, 06:28 PM Flag
        • ita. have we discussed CHerrie?

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          09.19.06, 06:31 PM Flag
          • yes, earlier today

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            09.19.06, 06:31 PM Flag
            • Would like to meet her someday. I think the site has potential but the wrong people in control

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              09.19.06, 06:32 PM Flag
              • her name is brutal

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                09.19.06, 06:34 PM Flag
                • Is it really Capital C and Capital H?

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                  09.19.06, 06:35 PM Flag
                • she spells it with a capital "H", doesn't she?

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                  09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flag
                • well. i am in the burbs now. so no use for me. just being nosy.

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                  09.19.06, 06:37 PM Flag
                  • ---oops. sorry.

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                    09.19.06, 06:37 PM Flag
                  • i'm in the burbs also, but still have my NPN membership

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                    09.19.06, 06:37 PM Flag
              • i met her a few times. why?

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                09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flag
                • what is she like?

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                  09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flag
                • Just curious. What is she like? She has a consulting firm that consults for NPN so NPN in theory pays her so her job isn't totally volunteer.

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                  09.19.06, 06:37 PM Flag
                  • probably a same age as me. soccer mom type. from philipine long time ago. she is nice enough.

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                    09.19.06, 06:38 PM Flag
                  • I never assumed her position was volunteer. Even though NPN is not for profit, it is still standard to have paid employees

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                    09.19.06, 06:38 PM Flag
                  • wow, holy conflict of interest

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                    09.19.06, 07:12 PM Flag
    • not anymore. but maybe i will join just because all the posts you guys are talking about.

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      09.19.06, 06:34 PM Flag
      • Its $40 for a nonprofit so its tax deductible. Good resource for nannies, services, schools, etc.

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        09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flag
        • CHerrie, is that you?

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          09.19.06, 06:36 PM Flag
        • moved to the burbs. i think i am still pretty cool or at least as cool as i was in the city 1 year ago.

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          09.19.06, 06:39 PM Flag
          • huh?

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            09.19.06, 07:28 PM Flag
            • oh, in another post. someone said burb moms are just not cool enough for them to hang out with.

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              09.19.06, 07:30 PM Flag
              • people are so silly

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                09.19.06, 07:32 PM Flag
              • Re: oh, in another post. someone said burb moms are just not cool enough for them to hang out with. They need to grow up!

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                09.20.06, 06:15 AM Flag
        • no.

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          09.19.06, 06:40 PM Flag
    • Who is bumping this extremely old thread? No one cares . GET A HOBBY!

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      10.20.11, 08:01 PM Flag
  • [-]Chicago moms: If not NPN, here or YoubeMom, where are the other interesting discussion boards?

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    • I don't know BUT I posted on NPN about this the other day and the responses were really funny.

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      06.06.11, 07:08 PM Flag
      • haha! i saw that post & i 100% agree w/you - npn is getting so boring these days. i try to refresh the page hoping that something new and interesting will come up, but it's the same ol' nanny/cleaning lady/school posts.... zzz

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        06.14.11, 01:02 PM Flag
        • So sorry it isn't trashy enough and nasty enough for you. Time to give up your membership.

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          07.16.11, 12:11 PM Flag
          • Np: so why you here? lighten up. NPN is what it is. A handy bulletin board. A not entertaining bulletin board.

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            07.16.11, 12:23 PM Flag
          • jeez - lighten up, it's just a message board. why so defensive??? you must be one of the boring posters. ;)

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            09.06.11, 07:57 PM Flag
            • What has your interesting contribution been?

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              10.19.11, 12:45 PM Flag
  • [-]Favorite NPN posters? I like the woman who said that the secret to being a calm mom is to be old!

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    • I'm not on NPN, but that is a stupid comment.

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      10.09.11, 03:50 PM Flag
    • This is one of the occasions when you had to be on NPN to appreciate it.

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      10.09.11, 03:51 PM Flag
    • what is the deal with that nurse e?

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      10.09.11, 04:00 PM Flag
      • I don't know. But, who is your favorite poster?

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        10.09.11, 04:01 PM Flag
        • i don't really know about any of the specific posters other than nurse e, sorry.

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          10.09.11, 04:02 PM Flag
          • Which recent comments have you enjoyed most? (BTW, I rather like Nurse E. She's a complete original and a refreshing break from all the "where can I get a $500.00 hotel room in NYC---we're on a strict budget" types of posts.

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            10.09.11, 04:04 PM Flag
            • i find her kind of annoying. she is incoherent half the time and talks nonsense.

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              10.09.11, 04:31 PM Flag
              • np: I agree. Her posts give me headaches. I've left npn because I hate bumping into threads that she has posted on. I cannot fathom why so many seem to love her and think she is cute. She is annoying.

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                10.09.11, 06:28 PM Flag
                • I just don't read them.

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                  10.11.11, 10:42 AM Flag
            • Can't we have original, refreshing posters who don't also throw hissy fits at the 1st hint of criticism?

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              10.09.11, 06:23 PM Flag
              • This. She is the hissy fit queen.

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                10.09.11, 06:28 PM Flag
    • I liked the swinger post, b/c NPN is so not the crowd to ask something like that. I imagined all of these moms wearing LL Bean slacks gasping in horror upon reading it....

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      10.09.11, 05:16 PM Flag
    • Remember the days of momtrolfreak?

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      10.09.11, 06:15 PM Flag
      • Nurse E's 1st cousin, except sometimes funny.

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        10.09.11, 06:24 PM Flag
      • Loved momtrolfreak. I thought she had a great sense of humor and had interetsing opinions. I hardly ever NPN anymore. It's a great resource for information, but seriously lacking when it comes to entertainment.

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        10.09.11, 06:24 PM Flag
        • Ditto! I just re-upped and it is pretty boring. But the swingers post was funny!

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          10.09.11, 06:34 PM Flag
    • Cleverusername.

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      10.09.11, 06:26 PM Flag
      • Love her! And, Rachel, sometimes "Dad", but occasionally he tries too hard.

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        10.10.11, 08:09 AM Flag
        • Cleverusername is a HE.

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          10.10.11, 03:26 PM Flag
          • Nice to have a dad on board.

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            10.11.11, 10:43 AM Flag
    • Whoever posted "Look over there a unicorn!"

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      10.09.11, 07:07 PM Flag
    • Where is 17279 and 19809?

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      10.10.11, 08:09 AM Flag
      • 19809 is still there with (yet another) new number. 25043, or something. Usually posts as "NotNew" or as the head of the Elementary Parents Group.

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        10.10.11, 09:33 AM Flag
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          10.10.11, 10:25 AM
          • Wow, what crawled up your ass?

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            10.11.11, 08:33 AM Flag
            • She's always threatening to leave and she never does.

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              10.11.11, 10:27 AM Flag
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              10.11.11, 12:33 PM
              • BTW my name does not begin with a 'B'

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                10.11.11, 12:35 PM Flag
                • Wow. A friend just alerted me to this. 17279 here. Why don't you just tell me how you feel about me? Go ahead you spineless little shit. Say all the things you'd never tell me if you were standing right here in front of me. Hide behind the pseudo-anonymous website and tell me what kind of horrible person I am, because clearly I must be pretty awful to generate such comments. You people have no idea how horrible you are, or how horrible your words are. This is why I left NPN. No, I am not still there. Because of horrible, ugly people like you. I hope you feel happy now that you've managed to hurt me. Your petty little life seems a whole lot better now. Good for you.

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                  10.11.11, 02:18 PM Flag
                  • Wow. Just wow. Pot, kettle.

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                    10.11.11, 07:31 PM Flag
                  • You can be very wise, 17279. You can also be very belligerent. I'll miss the wise 17279.

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                    10.12.11, 05:49 AM Flag
              • Hello, 12601. Are you brave enough to share your real name here or shall I do it for you?

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                10.11.11, 05:21 PM Flag
                • You really should read your own posts 17279. You've hurt a lot of people.

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                  10.11.11, 05:48 PM Flag
          • I hope you feel like a big girl now that you've got that out of your system. You must be the biggest chicken shit in the world to bash someone you don't even know on an anonymous website.

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            10.11.11, 02:20 PM Flag
            • Better here than on NPN where you do it.

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              10.12.11, 05:41 AM Flag
        • I'm glad.

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          10.10.11, 12:21 PM Flag
          • Hello Bernadette. Nice to see you here.

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            10.11.11, 08:34 AM Flag
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            10.11.11, 08:35 AM
            • Hung up about growing old, are we?

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              10.11.11, 10:26 AM Flag
            • I know you think you're the center of the universe, honey, but you can't speak for most others.- Bernadette fan.

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              10.11.11, 12:42 PM Flag
            • So not true. Bernadette is fine. Intelligent thougtful posts. Nurse E on the other hand. NUTS. She just did it a gain today. Wrote an incomprehensible post, took offense at replies pouted and stomped off. She is somehting else.

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          10.10.11, 12:24 PM
          • Hello, Bernadette.

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            10.11.11, 08:33 AM Flag
            • You know, I just hang out on NPN for you!

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              10.11.11, 10:26 AM Flag
    • I know why NPN is "boring". You can't be an original without someone bashing you here on UB.

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      10.10.11, 12:23 PM Flag
    • Anyone know these people IRL?

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      10.10.11, 12:29 PM Flag
    • The woman who always complains about sanctimommies. She "outed" herself on UB by saying that on NPN.

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      10.10.11, 01:24 PM Flag
      • by saying what on NPN? I don't get it.

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        10.10.11, 03:43 PM Flag
    • Well, NA NA BOO BOO to you all. That is my first and final comment. Now go return to watching SpongeBob and drawing mustaches on your sisters Barbies.

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      10.11.11, 12:56 PM Flag
      • huh?

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        10.11.11, 02:09 PM Flag
      • 17279 loves to dish out tough love, but when someone dishes it back, she can't take it.

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        10.18.11, 08:31 AM Flag
        • Yeah there are some posts here apparently removed by moderator at someone's request, none of them hers. Makes it look like those posts were really abusive to those who can't read them now. Is it worse to call someone a spineless chicken shit or say that someone doesn't care how she sounds?

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          10.19.11, 11:36 AM Flag
          • No clue. I think in a population of 5000 NPN members, 5 to 10 crazies is pretty normal.

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            10.19.11, 12:44 PM Flag
    • You can't even tell who is saying what in this thread or even if posters are who they say they are or if they are answering their own posts. Which is why I prefer NPN.

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      10.12.11, 07:37 AM Flag
      • To answer OP's question, 6126, 6447, 2551, and it's hard to distinguish between all the IDs now that start with 2.....

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        10.13.11, 05:49 PM Flag
        • meant now that they all start with 2-----

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          10.13.11, 06:22 PM Flag
          • I'd love to see people use some sort of identifying name..even if it something like Cleverusername. There are a lot of smart, preceptive posters I like to follow, but without a name I can't search for their posts.

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            10.18.11, 08:30 AM Flag
  • [-]My second grader received in school suspension today for telling another student he was going to shoot him......I am mortified and scared out of my mind....help me please

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    • You and the school are overreacting.

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      01.29.10, 03:33 PM Flag
      • do not agree.

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        01.29.10, 03:45 PM Flag
      • everyone overreacts until something happens.

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        01.29.10, 04:22 PM Flag
    • Your kid's school sucks. He's 7/8 years old! That's what they say. I mean, unless your kid actually has a gun and intends to shoot this kid, it's ridiculous.

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      01.29.10, 03:33 PM Flag
      • He said the words "gun" and "shoot".....I agree in school suspension is harsh but it's their policy....but I'm scared about what he is going through that is making him think this way and say these things...

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        01.29.10, 03:53 PM Flag
        • all little boys think this way. Geeze.

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          01.29.10, 03:55 PM Flag
          • agree, can't find the link, but OP if you are a good internet searcher, Newsweek did a good article on this. Little boys and gun play. Try to find it, it will help you.

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            01.29.10, 03:58 PM Flag
            • the link has been posted here too (where I found it), so maybe a search with Newsweek on ub would be easier.

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              01.29.10, 04:01 PM Flag
    • I think it's an appropriate response to teach him what is and what is not acceptable behavior. On your part, I'd be mortified but not scared out of my mind. It's TALK. He's an 8 year old boy. Teach him, but don't expect that he's really going to need to be institutionalized at this point.

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      01.29.10, 03:54 PM Flag
      • Thank you ....I am overreacting and am glad for the feedback-that's why I posted-but he's such a sweet boy (I know-Charlie Manson's mother said the same thing) that I'm wondering what is going on at school to make him have such violent outbursts....he jumps in our bed most nights....sometimes interrupting "things" ;)

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        01.29.10, 04:02 PM Flag
        • What do you mean by "violent outburst"?

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          01.29.10, 04:04 PM Flag
          • Threatening a classmate is a violent outburst in my opinion

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            01.29.10, 04:11 PM Flag
        • Um, HELLO ... how the hell many red flags do you need here?? He's only in second grade and got a SUSPENSION. Plus you say he jumps into your bed nearly every night?? Seriously?? This is not normal 8-year-old behavior. Get him help ASAP.

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          07.26.10, 11:53 AM Flag
      • ITA. We have had this talk many times with our 7 yo ds. Somethings that are appropriate to say when playing with light sabers in the back yard, are not appropriate at school. I'm really surprised the school reacted this way.

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        01.30.10, 06:24 PM Flag
    • The school is overreacting, the right way to handle would be taking the boy aside and having a conversation with him, then speaking with the parents assuming it's the first time.

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      01.29.10, 04:05 PM Flag
    • in this situation, tone and context are everything. do you have more details?

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      01.29.10, 04:13 PM Flag
      • That's all he said he doesn't like this boy and his friend overheard and told on hom

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        01.29.10, 04:29 PM Flag
    • Cut back on the TV and the video games. This is obviously the parent's fault. But the school did over-react. Still, such are the times. Deal with it at home. I doubt it's a serious problem, it hardly ever is.

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      01.29.10, 04:37 PM Flag
      • NP: I don't think it's true that it is obviously the parent's fault. I used to know a kid who was obsessed with guns and warplay etc. He knew entire plots of violent movies and would go over them, blow by blow. It turned out that he had no tv in his home at all--had never seen these movies--and would just grill his friends for details and commit them to memory. Little boys pick up on our society's obsession with violence simply by leaving the house.

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        01.29.10, 04:56 PM Flag
    • I think that is an insane overreaction, personally. The teachers should have used it as a learning opportunity for him and the other boy.

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      01.29.10, 05:02 PM Flag
    • 4th grader brought a knife to school & threatened to use it. was finally kicked out after parents complained to administration (private school). there is a big differnce - little kids talk about cops & robbers etc - doesnt mean they are a threat. you r administration overreacted. public or private? (just curious)

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      01.30.10, 06:18 PM Flag
    • I don't think you are over-reacting if you are worried about him being suspended. That is what would freak me out. Cancel your cable tv, and get rid of any movies/games with violence in them. Really. If you can't live without television..

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      01.30.10, 06:29 PM Flag
    • Bernadette? Is that you? Guess the hugs and "time in" isn't working anymore. Montessori isn't all its cracked up to be.

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      02.02.10, 11:05 PM Flagged
      • Yeah, it's gotta be NPN's 35+ leader and super sanctimommy Berndadette.

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        04.25.10, 02:35 PM Flagged
        • Still haven't gotten a life have you.

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          08.19.11, 11:22 AM Flag
    • With apologiues for the delayed response: I understand being mortified about the suspension, but I would not assume there is violent intent behind his language. It is alarming to hear a child speak this way, but after all, sometimes they are just repeating what they hear, or trying to gain control of their environment, or engaging in their little battles between good and evil. It is often metaphorical and not literal. All the same, you should talk to him about what shooting really means, the repercussions, the finality of a shooting death, etc. My 3-year-old told my 5-year-old recently that he was going to kill him when disputing ownership of a balloon. It was shocking, but moments later they were having a tea party with Curious Georg...

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      03.14.10, 02:00 PM Flag
    • What led your child to say this? If he is being mercilessly taunted and no adults are getting involved - things can take a very ugly turn. Not sure if this is your son's situation, but intense bullying can be very dangerous for the child being bullied AND for those who bully. I'd investigate thoroughly if this were my child.

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      04.25.10, 03:19 PM Flag
    • Wasn't concerned until you mentioned 'violent outbursts' Does he often get very angry and threaten violence? If his comment was made as part of play, I wouldn't be concerned, if he was angry at the classmate, then yes, I'd be concerned. Also don't understand your segue into the bit about jumping into your bed, interrupting things. Does he come into your bed every night? That's too much for a boy this age and there may be some things you need to explore with a therapist. As for interrupting 'things', that's why doors have locks.

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      07.26.10, 12:04 PM Flag
      • He just sounds like an unhappy kid who needs more time with you...is there something going on which is disrupting his life? BTW, B. is great.

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        02.09.11, 06:29 PM Flag
    • This sounds more like a cry for attention than a violent child.

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      02.09.11, 06:29 PM Flag
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