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Today, there's no denying that attitudes towards manners have relaxed. But while our kids call people by their first names, the thinking behind manners hasn't changed – that is, to show respect, courtesy and compassion for others.
Body+soul's parenting expert Fiona Baker shares the manners all kids should learn.
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The good old days?
Instead, what Ronit believes works more effectively is showing kids the reasons for having manners.
"I believe that when children know what it means to have manners and how they benefit from them, they are polite and show excellent manners naturally and effortlessly," Ronit says.
"Manners are just social codes of behaviour that people have discovered over time that show you can read and follow social cues."
Parents want help
More than 90 per cent of parents want values and manners taught in schools, although 96 per cent admit mums and dads should be mainly responsible for instilling values in children.
Ronit says: "Manners are habits and if your kids copy your language (and they will), they will have enough polite, respectful, grateful language to use as reference."
Rules of good manners
Eighty five per cent of people surveyed in a US poll a few years ago said they felt the world would be a better place if we just said "please" and "thank you" more often.
And they may just be words, but throwing in a "please" or "thank you" can soften a command, or make a response sound friendly and respectful.
Rules of good manners
The subject of table manners could fill pages.
But learning some basic politeness like not talking with a mouthful, not reaching in front of others and not burping, passing wind or talking about disgusting topics in public can take kids a long way.
Rules of good manners
If someone is talking – whether an adult or one of their friends – kids should learn it's impolite to interrupt.
While teaching them to say "excuse me" is good, kids also need to know that saying it over the top of other is not polite.
Rules of good manners
Kids, like all of us, need to learn how speak politely to others and not use rude or inappropriate language and put-downs.
This is not about swearing – some non-swear words can hurt a lot more – but continuing the theme of treating others courteously and with respect.
Rules of good manners
We live in a diverse society now with lots of different cultures, nationalities and traditions.
Teach kids to embrace and accept diversity in others.
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