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[-]My second grader received in school suspension today for telling another student he was going to shoot him......I am mortified and scared out of my mind....help me please
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Your kid's school sucks. He's 7/8 years old! That's what they say. I mean, unless your kid actually has a gun and intends to shoot this kid, it's ridiculous.
[ Reply | More ]I think it's an appropriate response to teach him what is and what is not acceptable behavior. On your part, I'd be mortified but not scared out of my mind. It's TALK. He's an 8 year old boy. Teach him, but don't expect that he's really going to need to be institutionalized at this point.
[ Reply | More ]Thank you ....I am overreacting and am glad for the feedback-that's why I posted-but he's such a sweet boy (I know-Charlie Manson's mother said the same thing) that I'm wondering what is going on at school to make him have such violent outbursts....he jumps in our bed most nights....sometimes interrupting "things" ;)
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Cut back on the TV and the video games. This is obviously the parent's fault. But the school did over-react. Still, such are the times. Deal with it at home. I doubt it's a serious problem, it hardly ever is.
[ Reply | More ]NP: I don't think it's true that it is obviously the parent's fault. I used to know a kid who was obsessed with guns and warplay etc. He knew entire plots of violent movies and would go over them, blow by blow. It turned out that he had no tv in his home at all--had never seen these movies--and would just grill his friends for details and commit them to memory. Little boys pick up on our society's obsession with violence simply by leaving the house.
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4th grader brought a knife to school & threatened to use it. was finally kicked out after parents complained to administration (private school). there is a big differnce - little kids talk about cops & robbers etc - doesnt mean they are a threat. you r administration overreacted. public or private? (just curious)
[ Reply | More ]Bernadette? Is that you? Guess the hugs and "time in" isn't working anymore. Montessori isn't all its cracked up to be.
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With apologiues for the delayed response: I understand being mortified about the suspension, but I would not assume there is violent intent behind his language. It is alarming to hear a child speak this way, but after all, sometimes they are just repeating what they hear, or trying to gain control of their environment, or engaging in their little battles between good and evil. It is often metaphorical and not literal. All the same, you should talk to him about what shooting really means, the repercussions, the finality of a shooting death, etc. My 3-year-old told my 5-year-old recently that he was going to kill him when disputing ownership of a balloon. It was shocking, but moments later they were having a tea party with Curious Georg...
[ Reply | More ]What led your child to say this? If he is being mercilessly taunted and no adults are getting involved - things can take a very ugly turn. Not sure if this is your son's situation, but intense bullying can be very dangerous for the child being bullied AND for those who bully. I'd investigate thoroughly if this were my child.
[ Reply | More ]Wasn't concerned until you mentioned 'violent outbursts' Does he often get very angry and threaten violence? If his comment was made as part of play, I wouldn't be concerned, if he was angry at the classmate, then yes, I'd be concerned. Also don't understand your segue into the bit about jumping into your bed, interrupting things. Does he come into your bed every night? That's too much for a boy this age and there may be some things you need to explore with a therapist. As for interrupting 'things', that's why doors have locks.
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[-]Any San Francisco moms on or moms who have lived there? We're very seriously considering a move from NYC for DH's job, but I'm worried after living here for so long, that I'll feel a little isolated. We'd likely end up in Marin. Are some towns there better for getting out and about, ie, less reliant on a car? Tiburon? Mill Valley? Maybe I just have to deal with the fact that it will be different, albeit not all different bad. Has anyone sent their kids to public in Marin? From what I've read, they seem like good options, or is private a better choice? TIA! (Sorry for double post - tagged for SF now.)
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My iphone is acting up. Let me try it again. Marin county is like Iowa in the middle of California. Boring. Nothing to do. White; in fact, all white. It is for wealthy white bored moms who are fine doing nothing but driving kids to soccer games and such. You have to drive everywhere. But it is pretty and great to visit. Move to San Francisco!
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I live in NYC and used to live in SF and the peninsula. Marin is lovely. Gorgeous. But you are 100% reliant on a car. It is like that in most the Bay Area. Only place you can possibly get away with no car is SF. But that's a stretch.
[ Reply | More ]SF Mom, lived NY for 6 years. I agree about moving to SF rather than Marin with the caveat that in SF you will likely need to send your kids to private school whereas in Marin (Tiburon, Mill Valley and Ross) you can send them to public school. We live in SF and walk everywhere, shop at the local deli, farmer's market, parks and restaurants. I agree with looking in the Marina and Pac Heights but would also add Cow Hollow (btwn the two neighborhoods) to the list. Happy to answer any specific questions.
[ Reply | More ]Thank you! This is really helpful. I guess my hesitation of living in SF proper is part of the reason we're moving is for space: a yard, a real house - can we do that in these neighborhoods? Also, I'm wary of the cooler weather in the city. Does it get to you? THANK YOU so much for the help...been kind of discouraged thinking about the big change in lifestyle.
[ Reply | More ]You can get a much bigger apt or house in SF along with a yard (not huge like the burbs but enough for the kids to play around). These areas are not the foggy areas and thus are a bit more pricey. The weather is the worst in the summer in terms of cooler, Sept and Oct can be in the mid-70s and there is no cold winters. I do not miss the hot sticky NY summers at all. You can always join a swim club in Marin (20 min drive) if you want warmth in the summer. If you really want a stand alone house, look in Cole Valley (tons of kids and less pricey than Pac Heights) and also look in the Lake District (it is right past Presidio Heights). What price range do you want? For 2mm you could buy a house in Cow Hollow, the Marina but not likely Paci...
[ Reply | More ]Thanks! Again, this is so useful. Thank you, thank you. We could spend more than that on a house (housing there is less than what we're paying in NYC), so I'll go explore those neighborhoods. I'd planned to do public in Marin, but I suppose I'd have to apply them to private from SF? Haven't read great things about the public schools in the city.
[ Reply | More ]The good news about SF is that the private schools are still for the most part in the under $25K range per year. What age/sex are your kids?
[ Reply | More ]B/G, ages 6/4 - we're doing private here in NYC but figured we could do public if we landed in Marin. But maybe not if we're in SF proper? I'll explore more of that via google - thanks for your help! Seriously, so helpful!
[ Reply | More ]The 4 year old is still in preschool so that is easy. You can likely land a spot mid-year with families moving or send to drop off classes. For coed privates, look at SF Day, Presidio Hill, Kittredge, Friends (quaker) and Brandeis (Jewish). For Boys Schools..Town is the only non-religious school and then there is Stuart Hall and Cathedral. If your 6 year old is heading into 1st grade, you might be able to find an opening. The Girl's schools are Hamlin, Burkes and Convent (affiliated with Stuart Hall).
[ Reply | More ]Thank you! I wish I knew you so I could send you wine when we head out there. :) But seriously, THANK YOU! We went through the process here in NYC for privates, and I've heard that SF is tough but not as bad as NYC, so I'm hoping that I can stomach it again if need be. Yes, 6-yo would be going into 1st when we move, so I'd have to find an off-year spot.
[ Reply | More ]Preschools...p/t programs to look at are Little School, Russian Hill, One Parker and Cow Hollow. Might also try Lone Mountain for a 4 year old.
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Here is an idea of what you can get in Cole Valley for under $3mm http://www.trulia.com/property/3016863655-1130-Cole-St-San-Francisco-CA-94117 or the Marina http://www.trulia.com/property/1025813453-3235-Webster-St-San-Francisco-CA
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It sounds like you may want to move out of city life (house, yard, etc.) and the SF move will be your excuse to do so. With suburb life you will be more reliant on a car and have less of a walkable life, no matter if you are in Marin or Westchester. Though in SF proper, you can have more space and a yard, which is virtually impossible in NYC.
[ Reply | More ]I left NYC kicking and screaming for Santa Clara county and I love it. We looked into living in SF, but the commute was a major obstacle. I have to say that suburban living in the Bay Area is very different from the NYC. There's a lot more community here and tons of diversity- though that probably has to do with Silicon Valley and the fact that not everyone goes to work in SF as they do in NYC.
[ Reply | More ]I really like my SF realtor - Eileen Bermingham http://www.ebsfhomes.com/. We wound up buying in the suburbs, but she was a very good person and gave me the lay of the land.
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[-]Am looking to move to Marin (from NYC) and am interested in homes In sunny areas with good public schools, lively downtown area and walkable (as much as possible) with a short commute to SF. I have $2-3M to spend and would like some advice on the pros and cons of the neighborhoods ( s
23 replies [ Reply | Watch | Moreschools in marin are mostly very strong. mill valley is the best combo of close to SF, good schools, nice downtown, and sunny, but not the sunniest. san rafael is nice, bigger too. San anselmo has a nice downtown, much sunnier than MV but longer commute. Fairfax has a great small town feel, very sunny, but longer commute. why are you moving?
[ Reply | More ]Moving bc family and friends live in the bay area (although mostly the east bay and peninsula, but i prefer Marin for the easier commute to the city). Husband and i are isolated from both our families and lifelong friends living in NYC...but that's where the job is, for now (looking to see if transferring is an option)
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Mill Valley, for sure, though if you want to commute to SF during rush hour, there's rarely such a thing as a short commute.
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OP, you are under a mispercepton if you think the commute to the city is easier from Marin to the City (particularly downtown) than many parts ofthe East Bay or the Peninsula. You are also getting bad advice. The commute from San Rafael is hedious. In the East Bay, look at Piedmont and Orinda - both have better school districts than Marin and will be sunnier than the city. Piedmont may have that more urban walkable feel you are looking for. On the Peninsula, look at Hillsborough/Atherton. If you are stuck on Marin (Milly Valley can be equally as foggy as SF on many days) then I would choose Ross, Kentwood or Larkspur.
[ Reply | More ]I live in the city and would LOVE to live in Hillsborough. In my opinion, it's the best option of them all with one of the easiest commutes/best school districts/beautiful homes. And yes, the commute from Marin is awful. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. FYI, Marin is also the "whitest" and least diverse option (if you care).
[ Reply | More ]I think op means Wall Street market hours, which in SF are from 6:30 am to 2:30 pm. So commuting from almost anywhere Marin would be ok, if waking up at 5 am is your thing. Personally, I'd consider Sausalito for the short commute despite it being a tourist trap on the weekends.
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I lived in the bay area and have family/friends there still. For easy commute, walkability, good schools I would suggest Piedmont. Weather better than SF and I think quite comparable to Marin. It's within Oakland but it's own school district. Nice homes. Great schools, nice homes, most of it is walkable to cute streets, commute to downtown is easy b/c down is near the east bay (not Marin) - drive, BART, casual carpool, bus all options. Also probably more interesting crowd b/c it's close to Berkeley.
[ Reply | More ]SF Mom (former NYC) - I would loathe being a SAHM in Marin. I would prefer the fog (by the way if you live in Noe Valley, you miss most of it). It is so Westchester County but worse. Of the choices mentioned above, Piedmont is your best bet but please reconsider, and move to SF proper.
[ Reply | More ]I live in SF, used to work in the city and Novato, and my husband's family lives in Mill Valley so I know a little bit about the area. I personally can't stand that area, and southern Marin gets foggy or sunny and cold at the same time too, don't let them fool you. People are feel like they are entitled to everything, kids are spoiled for my taste and you don't feel welcome. I know people living there who spent years finally getting to know people, or my in-laws, who have been living there for 30 years and still say that they don't feel like they can really get to know people there. The commute during market hours is fine, around 30 minutes. No walking anywhere there though unless you live in downtown of whatever town, and even then, downto...
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[-]3 months pregnant 36 year old (1st preg).... I have no idea what to do about maternity clothes. Tips? I was thinking of getting one good pair of 7 maternity jeans and maybe trying to just wear tunics and smock style tops and dresses, which I have a lot of already. Does that work? Suggestions? What did you guys do?
20 replies [ Reply | Watch | Moredon't wear the smock type tops or dresses - just get nice maternity t shirts and sweaters. jeans are fine if you are usually dressed casual.
[ Reply | More ]I went to Destination Maternity and got a lot of stuff there for not much $ at all. Your maternity jeans and smock top etc idea should work too initially any way. Congrats!
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I loved Gap... easy to shop online... loved their jeans, basic ts, a few print tops. personally, I had the same idea in the beginning, I would just wear smock type tops that I already own, but oddly, I felt thinner when I wore tighter clothes. The bigger the top, the bigger I felt. congrats!
[ Reply | More ]I just put on a super tight tank and my yoga pants, studied myself and kept in mind what you said about tighter made you feel thinner... and I totally get it. I think I might actually wear a slim fitting top tomorrow. It does look better. I actually look pregnant and not just like a fat ass- hah.
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destination maternity - the motherhood maternity line for cheap casual stuff and the mimi maternity for somewhat nicer things (not a fan of pea in the pod); target maternity; gap/old navy maternity; H&M maternity. in the first 5 months you can get away with empire waist regular clothing, but after that your belly generally starts to protrude enough that regular clothes do not fit prportionately. good jeans are a must IMO as are good black pants. in the summer a bunch of little dresses go a long way.
[ Reply | More ]Top shop makes REALLY cute maternity jeans. There's one in SoHo or you can order online. About $80 each. Also got some cute tops and linen pants there...
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When buying the maternity jeans are they sized like normal jeans? I am so clueless.
[ Reply | More ]Yes, but ask for help. I liked Pea in the Pod and Destination Maternity because they have these fake bellies that you can put on (secured with velcro straps). It gives you a better idea of how the clothes will fit. I spent $189 on a pair of 7 maternity jeans. At the time it KILLED me to spend that much, but now I don't regret it at all. They look really good and are helping me keep up my morale.
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I used hair elastics as button extenders for the first 5 months and then I went to Marshals and stores like it that had Maternity stuff for cheap. The only problem was that when you buy cheap you get cheap and a lot of the stuff shrunk or the hems rolled or some other such thing that made the item ugly/unwearable. I think ebay and craigslist can be usefull and also just trolling for sales. Spending retail on mat clothes is a giant waste of $$ that could be better spent on cool baby clothes. Good luck.
[ Reply | More ]Personally I felt much better in tighter clothes. The smock tops worked well in the beginning but once I started getting bigger I really didn't like the look (big rather than pregnant)...dresses are fabulous and I plan on wearing them to work ALL summer this year (17 weeks right now).
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[-]How bad would it be to get a trampoline with side netting for my 3 & 6 yo?
10 replies [ Reply | Watch | Morei think it would be great, just make sure there is ALWAYS an adult supervising and keeping them from getting too rough in their play. trampoline is my kids FAVORITE activity and the people who shriek not to get them should not let anyone have a swimming pool, either. they key is proper supervision at all times.
[ Reply | More ]American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that trampolines never be used. Friend who is a pediatric orthopedist knows why....
[ Reply | More ]Have you considered an inground trampoline? My sister used to have one and it was awesome! If you were really safety concious you could do an inground trampoline plus a safety net.
[ Reply | More ]This seems like a safer option... http://suzysaid.com/index.php?page=stories&family=favorites&display=4504
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[-]Just relocated to SF and need to find a pediatrician who will be, at minimum, tolerant of delayed vaccination schedule, and not lecture us for not giving non-mandatory shots, and not try to force us to also get a bunch of shots -- any recs would be greatly appreciated, TIA
3 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreYes, Jessica Kaplan at Noe Valley Pediatrics is great. She rolls her eyes a little but totally indulges my delayed schedule. Also, there is some pricey Marin one that people love that doesn't make you vax (they do house calls in the city, there's a big annual fee though, can't remember what it's called).
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[-]Any other peninsula moms also having a hard time finding a great nanny? We had someone superb and have been looking for over half a year since then with no luck. Past 2 nannies, that were touted as "amazing" by former employers were lazy and incompetent, e.g. slept on job or forgot when infant's feeds were. I admit we are particular, but come on....
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Morenyc mom about to move to SF. I have read that nanny salaries are higher in SF and much more likely to be on the books and that majority of nannies there are caucasian. Average wage in nyc is $15/hr or $600-700/week for 1-2dc. 85% or so are off the books. I would estimate 90%+ of ft nannies are non-caucasian. How does this compare? Is there a good population of Spanish-speaking nannies?
[ Reply | More ]SF is very different than where I am (about 1 hr south). My friends in the city all love their nannies--active, organized, and just more with it in general. Last I checked, rate in SF was something like $16-18 for one/ $18-20 for two kids, though people definitely pay higher. I think nannies out here feel more entitled to whatever they made at their peak, even as high as $22-25--too much imho. Lots of Spanish speaking nannies, as the state is 25% Hispanic. Not sure on exact breakdown of on/off books and ethnicity...
[ Reply | More ]SF mom here, we have only had caucasian nannies. Ditto with most of my friends, though some have had nannies who's first language is french. We and my friends pay on the books and pay by the hour, not the week. For one DC, I would say the range is about $16-18, some pay more and some pay less. There is a large contingency of Spanish speaking and Brazilian nannies in SF. Look at Parent's Place for postings on nannies and also sign up for the Golden Gate Mother's Group where you will see all kinds of discussion on nannies and where mom's post nanny availability. Best wishes.
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Any other peninsula (bay area) moms having a hard time finding a great nanny? We had someone great, but haven't been able to find anyone else in the past 6 months. Last 2 were "amazing" per previous employers, but were lazy and incompetent--slept on job or could not remember when infant had to feed!
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[-]Heading to Sonoma/Napa in February. Any recommendations for restaurants/winery visits??
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[-]We'll be in Santa Cruz / SF area between xmas and New year with 3.5 year old dd. Any suggestions for kid friendly activities/adult and kid friendly restaurants etc?
10 replies [ Reply | Watch | MorePeir 39 seals and carousel. Exploratorium. Cable car ride to China Town (after dark). Golden Gate Park playground & museum there.
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The beach boardwalk in Santa Cruz. Downtown Santa Cruz. The Montery Aqurium. In SF, take the kids to the Academy of Sciences. Great indoor rain forrest there. All the resturants are kid friendly in Santa Cruz. Is SF, you can take them to any reesaurants on the warf.
[ Reply | More ]A bit confused as Santa Cruz and SF are 2 hours a part but we live in SF and have a weekend house in the Santa Cruz area so here are my recommendations with the caveat that I hate the boardwalk, its like coney island. However, it does have appeal for a 3.5 year old. In the Santa Cruz Area - apple picking at Gizdich Ranch, Roaring Camp Railroad (there is a special christmas lighted train), Wilder Ranch has events , hiking in Henry Cowell, favorite thing is just looking at the tide pools at Natrual Bridges, the Seymour Marine Discovery Center (indoor if raining). Restaurants - Gayles in Capitola and Carpos in Soquel, Rivas on the Santa Cruz Wharf are my kid go to friendly places to eat.
[ Reply | More ]San Francisco - hands down best thing for a 3.5 year old is the Bay Area Discovery Museum in Sausalito (first exit across the bridge). In SF - the Academy of Sciences (note the kids play area which you will miss if you do not look for it), there are drop in art classes at the SF Children's Art Center at Fort Mason, Chrissy Field is fun to explore, the Westin St. Francisco has some great holiday displays, the JCC has an indoor swimming pool you can get a day pass to with a kids pool, the Disney Store on stockton st has a theater for kids to watch movies. If it were me, I'd see if you can get a spot at Peekadoodle kidscamp for the 27th-30th, it runs from 9-1 and your kid would have a blast. Restaurants - if you eat early - good food and wil...
[ Reply | More ]If you must take the cable car, take the California line (there is hardly any wait) compared to the Powell St or Hyde St lines which start in Union Square and Fisherman's Wharf respectively. Additionally, the Randall Museum is a free museum in the city which at age 3, my kids liked.
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Also, for a nice restaurant which caters to kids is Luella on Hyde St in Russian Hill. I would avoid most of the restaurants in the Fisherman Wharf/Union Square area as tourist traps with a few exceptions (Gary Danko being one of them but then again, I would not take a 3.5 yo to GD). Wondersitters is good baby sitting service if you need one.
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[-]I'm going to Sonoma with a group of girls for a few days. Any suggestions on wineries, restaurants, hotels....
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreSorry for the late post. I hope this finds you. Wineries - Pezzi King (think its now Passalacqua), its hard to find outside of the winerries. Others - Gunbund, Audelssa, Lynmar, Yoakim Bridge, Imagery, Porter Creek, Inspiration Vineyards, Rafanelli (or any of the smaller wineries off Dry Creek Rd). Also Thumprint in Healdsburg quare and Selby is fantastic!
[ Reply | More ]Hotels - Gaige House, Kenwood Inn, MacArthur Place. The location of Hotel Healdsburg is great because you can walk to Selby and Thumbprint but I am not all that impressed with the hotel itself. I have heard good things about the Healdsburg Modern Cottages (also a walk) but I have never stayed there.
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[-]Taking a weekend trip to SF. We are NYers. Any good (not expensive) hotel & restaurant suggestions? Not taking kids!
2 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreHotel Del Sol is in a way better location than Union Square tourist central and is not to $$$. If you stay there Tacolicious, Betelnut, Dosa on Fillmore and A16 (both Chestnut St) are nearby and great for dinner and not too pricey. The Nob Hill Spa at the Hunington Hotel is the best spa I have been to anywhere and I have been to a lot! I would also look into Hotel Vitale whch is walking distance to tourist areas without being central and is right across from the Ferry Buliding - eat at Slanted Door and Town Hal - both nearby. Good cheap fun food includes Cha Cha Cha in the Haight.
[ Reply | More ]whenever we go to sf, we always bid on priceline or hotels.com for our hotel - we end up with a 4 or 5 star hotel for less than $200/night. usually they aren't boutique hotels, but they have been fine. as far as restaurants go, we were just there and loved la mar ~ not v. cheap, but it has great food and a fun atmosphere. have fun ~ we love sf!!!
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[-]HELP from SF moms: dh just got a job offer in sf. dcs are at a wonderful progressive here in nyc. are there any good progressives in sf? was just googling and found presidio hill school. any presidio parents on? also, how hard is it to get into K in sf schools compared to nyc schools?
7 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreSF has several progress schools, that will be the least of your worries. Getting in, is another question. Presidio Hill has a pre-K or transitional K, if your DCs school director has connections, start using them. App deadlines are soon.
[ Reply | More ]Live Oak is another SF school that holds itself out as progressive. Also, Synergy School. Some other schools are not labled necessairly as progressive but have some progressive elements like Marin Country Day School (in Marin with half the students from SF) and SF Friends. The single sex schools and the langauge schools (FAIS and CAIS) are more traditional. What do you like about your progressive school? I can throw some more names of schools out there.
[ Reply | More ]op: i love the intimacy of the physical environment, the parent involvement, the relaxed and low-key parents
[ Reply | More ]Then you should find a number of schools to your liking as outside of the more traditional single sex schools, there are lots of low-key parents and nurturing schools. In addition to PSH, look at Friends, Kittredge and Live Oak. If you are willing to let your kids take the bus, I would also look at MCDS. It might also be worth looking at Alta Vista, which is a new school that there is some good buzz about.
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[-]Can anyone tell me anything about living in the Crocker Heights neighborhood in Oakland? How does it compare to other neighborhoods in Berkeley/Oakland/Piedmont (particularly neighborhoods like Rockridge)? And, what exactly defines the neighborhood geographically? How close is it to the Berkeley campus? TIA
2 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreCrocker Heights or Crocker Highlands? If the latter, it is one of the nicer areas of Oakland and walkable to Lakeshore Drive which has a nice shopping area. The elementary school is supposed to be one fo the better ones in Oakland but that is not saying a lot as the schools in general are not considered good (taken over by the state). Most kids go to private school who live in the neighborhood. It is generally safe but most people have house alarms. My guestimate is a 15 minute car ride to campus. The boundaries are a bit fuzzy but generally Upper Lake Shore to the Pidemont Border/ Trestle Glen/Mandana Blve/ Piedmont is nicer and much better schools though a bit surburban (its actually on the border of Crocker). Rockridge has much mor...
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[-]So, we're moving from the Midwest to San Francisco, where DD will be eligible to enter kindergarten. She'll definitely be one of the younger ones in her class. Debating on what to do -- send her to public school and save a lot of money on Montessori or redshirt her. Any ideas on pros and cons of keeping her back? Her one teacher says she's ready socially and academically, her other teacher says keep her in Montessori for as long as possible. But I question that teacher's biases. Thanks.
8 replies [ Reply | Watch | Moreput her in K if she's the right age according to the cutoff dates. because it's the right thing to do, and because she'll be bored if she's more than a year older than her classmates next yhear. and you'll save money.
[ Reply | More ]I have held one child back and sent one. They're both still in elementary school, but there are pros and cons with BOTH. I think it all evens out in the end. The one way I have heard girls suffer by being the oldest is that they mature physically sooner and that can be a source of embarrassment, and they are also interested in boys sooner than their peers, and that issue often is a divider of friends. But like I said, there are pros and cons of both.
[ Reply | More ]there is a new Pre-K-5 Montesorri school in SF that is moving to a fabulous location (Pacific Heights). Get in touch with them immediately and they may put your DC in the pre-K or the K. With prior Montessori experience she will likely get into the K and be put into a 3-5 year old class. Look on SFUSD website for info and be persistent. Call the Prinicpal directly, do not really on the board of Ed for anything.
[ Reply | More ]Depends entirely on the child. Our daughter is a late fall birthday, probably the youngest in her class. She was at a modified Montessori preschool last year. It was totally clear she was ready for kindergarten, so we went ahead and sent her. As another poster said, someone has to be the youngest.
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