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64 What
should the teacher be reinforcing through reward and punishment?
Is it simply "obedience," or is it something deeper?
Chassidic teachings explain that, in the ultimate sense, the teacher
should be praising selflessness and criticizing arrogance and conceit. The
sensitivity which enables the proper distribution of reward and punishment
is the ability to evaluate the amount of ego within any act. The greater the
self-centeredness, the greater the punishment should be. This means that the
same deed could indicate much ego for one person and have an entirely
different significance and motivation for another. Similarly a minor misdeed
might draw harsh rebuke if it came from a place of untempered ego, whereas a
"major" disobedience could go unpunished if it did not express
such a large measure of conceit. An
educator can only acquire this sensitivity to his students' ego issues if he
has surrendered himself and his ego to God. Then his acts of reward and
punishment will be "for the sake of heaven," without ulterior
motive, and he will be successful in eliminating the barriers of ego which
separate his students from their goal of perfection. When
we speak of eliminating the barriers of ego here, we refer specifically to
eliminating arrogance and selfishness.
These traits are a direct expression of the universal principle of
"evil" as Judaism defines it. "Evil" is the illusion of
separation and independence from God, and while there are infinite
variations of its expression, generally, the distortion which is called
"evil" is the sense, often subtle, of personal sovereignty. Thus
the ego's influence is epitomized by arrogance and selfishness. The
deluded voice of arrogance sounds something like this: "I have pulled
myself up by my bootstraps. I am responsible for my own success. I owe
nothing to anybody. My talents and my aptitudes are my own making. I take
full credit for my accomplishments. I know what's best for me. Nobody can
tell me what to do."
In contrast, the voice of someone who has conquered his ego sounds
something like this: "I am a servant of the Most High. He gave me
certain talents and abilities so that I can fulfill my mission in this
lifetime. Whatever I accomplish is through His strength, inspiration, and
grace. I am part of a living, organic whole, each piece fulfilling an
equally necessary function in the odyssey of creation. I am limited in my
capacity for understanding and must therefore rely on a wisdom greater than
my own--the Torah and the sages--to direct me on my way." The
deluded voice of selfishness operates from the premise that "I deserve
the best" and proceeds something like this: "It's a dog eat dog
world. I must take care of my own needs and desires first. Sacrifice means
pain and discomfort. If I don't protect my own interests, no one else will.
If I give to someone else, there's less for me. I am the center of my world.
I will pursue comfort and pleasure, and avoid sacrifice and lack."
Instead of, "Inherently I deserve nothing. All that I receive is
a gift from above. The whole purpose of my existence is to serve God. The
essential way of fulfilling this responsibility is to emulate Him. Since He
is the most generous source of all bounty and sustenance, I emulate Him
through giving. I understand that any apparent lack created from my giving
is illusory. In fact, my soul is enriched by my giving. If I give something
away that I should have, God will replace it, for He is the owner and
distributor of all resources. The body is nourished by taking, the soul by
giving. God's whole purpose in creating the world was so that He could dwell
below in the most physical of worlds through the good deeds and acts of
loving-kindness of His creatures. Every act of giving brings His desire
closer to realization." The
teacher who understands these things, rebuking the ego and not the deed,
does his students a great service. He frees them from the burden of their
self-centeredness, the lead weight which prevents them from finding peace
and fulfillment in this world. In
addition to deciding what to encourage and what to rebuke, and how to
communicate this most effectively, the teacher must recognize the proper
moment for delivering his feedback. This ability to choose the most
favorable moment for expressing praise or criticism requires an acute sense
of timing. Does the student's present mood make him or her more (or less)
receptive to feedback?
Is it something best done in private or in public?
Do things need to settle down before the matter is addressed, or is
it best done spontaneously in the moment?
Will the passage of time make the student more receptive, or will
memory fade and make the feedback less effective?
All these factors must be instantaneously processed and a decision
made on the spot, according to the guidance of Jewish law which addresses
many of these questions. By
means of reward and punishment, the educator insures that his instruction is
received accurately and properly. Probing and observing his students'
thoughts and behaviors, the teacher proceeds to correct their
internalization of the material on increasingly subtle levels. In this way,
he causes the growth and knowledge to settle into his students' personality
and become an integrated part of who they are.
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