Adventure Beat

Love and pain in Macedonia

Mon Jul 17, 9:00 PM ET

Richard Bangs Adventures just completed the first of two five-day expeditions in the Balkans, Discovering the Mysteries of Macedonia. (Next week we'll follow it up with a visit to Bosnia and its growing environmental movement.) Though we focused primarily on the intriguing legends and history of Macedonia, birthplace of Alexander the Great and many other influences on the classical world, we also took time to enjoy the more modern aspects of Macedonia. Richard Bangs wraps up our coverage with this anecdote on losing love, and the ever-present hope of finding it again.

On our last night in Skopje, Macedonia's largest city and capital, we headed to Capri, a watering hole for the fashionable and famous, and met the proprietor, Dragan Muratovski, who with his bald pate, body shirt, and single earring is the simulacrum of Mr. Clean gone hedonistic. Dragan ordered up some rakija, and after a shot I asked why he named his haunt "Capri."

He dropped his head toward his glass and sighed: "It is because of the biggest regret of my life. The biggest mistake of my life." He then told the story, one as florid, romantic, tragic and optimistic as Macedonia itself.

When Dragan was a young man he traveled to the island of Capri and met a beautiful Italian woman, Laura. They fell madly in love, spending the perfect summer together, and resolved to continue the relationship, to take it to a higher level. Dragan had to return home for a spell, but was able to make his way back earlier than expected, and he set out to surprise his love. He walked into the hotel and heard her laughter wafting from the pool. He rushed outside and saw her splashing about and playing with another man.

Unable to contain his anger, he pulled the man from the pool and beat him up. Dragan then took a room for his retreat, where he received a call from his lover's father — who informed him that he had just bloodied his daughter's visiting cousin. The father forbade Dragan from seeing his daughter again, and disappeared with her. 

Dragan returned to Macedonia and opened up a bar in her tribute. He lost himself in collecting expeditions to Africa and Asia, and brought back a capuchin monkey from Thailand as a companion. But he was depressed and anxious, still pining for his lost love. When after five years the monkey suddenly died, Dragan went to a psychic to understand why. She said the monkey had absorbed his stress and it was too much for its little heart. Dragan had the monkey stuffed, and it hangs today in an apartment above the Capri with a little smile curled across its face.

After telling the tale, and showing me the monkey, Dragan belted back another rakija, put on some Caprian music, and sat down facing the door as he always does, hoping, he said, that someday his long-lost Laura will walk through it. 

Perhaps this story on the Internet will make it come true.

RECOMMEND THIS STORY

Recommend It:

Average (Not Rated)

0.0 stars

Comments

Join the discussion. Here you'll see the comments in the order they were posted.

  • 1 - 9 of 9
  • First
  • < Previous
  • Next >
  • Last
Where is this cafe, Capri???
Posted by cml2skopje on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 9:14 AM ET
ako neznaes netreba ni da znaes ne e toa za sekoj idi ti u trend
Posted by evilgeniusland on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 3:42 PM ET
Mr. Bangs if want to see the birthplace of Alexander the Great please come to Macedonia, Greece. I feel so sorry for the skopjianslavs that don't have an identity and trying to take ours. I can't wait when the Albanians which are about 60% of the population in FYROM take over the country and you poor %$#&* will be at our border in Evzonous crying for help. Be very careful not to &*^%$ us Greek Macedons, because we will stop using your family members at our cotton and tomatoe fields.
Posted by pellaconsulting on Sat, Jul 22, 2006 11:10 PM ET
LOOOOOOOLLLL 60% precent albanians in Macedonia hahahahaha the funniest thing I've heard. 23 is the percentage of albanians here, my dear friend. 23. I can not even start to imagine what would it be like if they were 60%. luckily they are still a minority, which is a word that I don't think greeks are aware of. A minority (look it up) which also lives in Greece and wants the same rights that we gave them (we got slightly carried away with giving rights, but what the hell, let them live as people). So.... good luck with your cotton and tomatoe fields :) I wish you all the best!
Posted by zooly4 on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 2:51 PM ET
Give them 5 more years and they will have FYROM. Regarding my families agriculture fields, as long as there is cheap labor from FYROM we all make money.
Posted by pellaconsulting on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 4:40 PM ET
Greek Macedons will never let any slavSkopian or Bulgarian stealour history. So I would suggest you all start using Ottoman History for identity
Posted by pellaconsulting on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 4:58 PM ET
So what makes you think that your history is better than our Macedonian history? It's only you, the "Grecoes" always to dispute anything regarding Macedonia, and cause malice. Shame on you...,poor Greeks!
Posted by yovauk on Tue, Jul 25, 2006 8:29 AM ET
Regardless of your arguments, the author is geographically incorrect when her describes FYROM as the birthplace of Alexander. Alexander was born in Pella which is in modern day Vergina in Greek Macedonia.
Posted by estilianopoulos on Tue, Jul 25, 2006 3:32 PM ET
Allahu Akbar!!! IRAQI PRIDE FOR LIFE, HASTA LA MUERTE!!!
Posted by fockfockfock25 on Wed, Jul 26, 2006 9:43 PM ET
  • 1 - 9 of 9
  • First
  • < Previous
  • Next >
  • Last