Memory consists of three main components: encoding, storage,
and retrieval. Both components are required to generate a memory.
When your focus is directed at the encoding process,
retrieval will come naturally. Knowledge is power and practical
use of your knowledge of how memory works will greatly enhance
your memory, and life in general.
Limit distractions: When you limit distractions, it will assist in
learning new material and in enhancing your recall. It is much
easier to pay attention if you are in a quiet environment free from
distraction. If your spouse, friend, boss, or significant other wants
to tell you something, then turn off the TV, radio, or your internal
thoughts and focus on what is said to you. (If you are trying to
watch a movie, then turn off your spouse, friend, boss, or significant
other.) If you find you're having difficulty grasping what is
being said, repeat the conversation back to the other person. If
you are trying to recall something or maneuver your way somewhere,
such as driving to a new or even familiar location, stop all
conversation, especially phone conversation. Put your makeup or
razor away and focus on where you are and where you're going.
Keep your windshield clean: It's difficult to see where you are
going and to read street signs if your windows are dirty. Distractions
as simple as hunger, tight apparel, or something in your eye
are all disruptive and drain energy from focusing on the task at
hand. Removing these types of distractions when you want to
concentrate will lead to an improved memory.
Memory spot: Create a memory spot in your home or office. Find
a container, such as a beautiful basket or a decorative crate, to
stash all those important items you need before heading out of the
door. These might include your calendar, directions, wallet or
purse, glasses, keys, lists, and so on. Train yourself to check out
your memory spot before you leave your house. Be consistent. It
may take a while to train yourself to empty your pockets or purse
and place the contents into your memory spot at the end of the
day. But once you've established this as a new habit, it will be very
helpful in your daily life. Also, you can create mobile memory
spots. If you are a man, always put your keys in your right front
pocket. If you are a woman, always carry your keys in your purse
on the right side. If you always place important items on the same
side, you will quickly develop the habit of looking on that side for
important personal belongings.
Reminders for remembering: If you are in the middle of a task or
out somewhere and you suddenly experience an "Oh, I need to
. . ." moment, give yourself a reminder or a cue to remember this
task. For example, switch the wrist you wear your watch on, or
place a loose rubber band around your wrist, or turn a piece of
jewelry in a different direction. Be sure to change the placement
of something ordinary so it will stand out from your normal environment
and thus serve as a useful reminder to remember to do
the task you just remembered!
Verbalize: Give yourself spoken reminders to do a task. For
instance, if you need to remember to care for your pets, say aloud,
"Feed the cats. Meow meow meow." You will reinforce the
encoding of this memory with verbal reinforcement as well as
with a touch of humor. You will also increase the likelihood of
completing this task, and your pet will be grateful. This trick also
works for reminders like "turn off the oven," "lock the doors," and
"call Mary."
Organize: Generally speaking, the better organized you are, the
more likely you are to remember everything you need to remember.
There are a variety of ways to organize. It may be beneficial to link
the items you need to remember to a number. This works especially
well if you have a short shopping list or if you need to perform tasks
in a specific sequence. For example, if you have eight items on a
grocery list, remember the number eight. Memorize both the numbers
and the items. Or, at the office, you can number the tasks you
hope to accomplish during the day and write that number in a
bright color on your desk calendar as a reminder.
Reprinted with permission from "The Memory Doctor: Fun, Simple Techniques to Improve Memory & Boost Your Brain Power" by Douglas J. Mason and Spencer Xavier Smith (New Harbinger Publications, $11.95), www.newharbinger.com.